Tulpa.info - tulpa-questions

If you are unsure, then that association is weaker

I'm not sure if I'm sure about anything

8:19 PM

Like In general

8:19 PM

I don't mean tulpamancy I mean day to day life

Im bad at this whole explaining thing

No you are doing a great job

8:20 PM

If I think it's her, I should label the thought as hers

8:20 PM

And I shouldn't worry about our thoughts mixing up

But when ive been told/read not to doubt and such, it never clicked until months afterward

Doubt is a strange thing

~Moonlight~

And I shouldn't worry about our thoughts mixing up

Yes It happens

8:21 PM

Sometimes ill hear a thought, and we arent sure where it came from

8:22 PM

So we just sorta "give" it to whoever it fits better

Hm whoever's personality aligns more with that thought

Thoughts are that simple Assign what thought are yours to you, and hers to her, and neither to neither

I need to stop doubting, but it's hard as I doubt things like life itself regularly

Just remember, its a pretty simple process of just believing its her

It won't be hard to distinguish complex thoughts, since our personalities are kinda opposite, I'm having trouble with the yes/no ones

8:24 PM

But yeah, now that you explain it, I'm pretty sure that was her

also if anything bothers you about the whole thing, you can just talk about it to her and figure things out together

So one of the views of tulpamancy i have in terms of this is

8:25 PM

Theres the mind and thoughts, you assign them to yourself, they are yours, yor thoughts tend to align more to how you believe you are

8:25 PM

you add tulpamancy into the mix

8:26 PM

Now theres another "entity" able to receive "ownership" of these thoughts

8:26 PM

And the brain develops develops associations to how those thoughts are, aligning with the tulpa

The brain is fascinating

I do look at it in other ways aswell, this is just one

i have several theories on the whole tulpamancy stuff and i kinda tormented myself with them last week, but i just kinda stopped caring

I honestly don't care about explanations

8:29 PM

Which is weird

8:29 PM

I always try to look for logical explanations for everthing

The brain is indeed interesting

when your tulpa pulls a face you cant do consciously when she possesses and you're looking at yourself in the mirror like lookingdownsmile

8:30 PM

she was super tense the first few days

8:31 PM

it wasnt scary though, just super fascinating and fun

Thank you guys, everyone here is always too nice >.<

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

it wasnt scary though, just super fascinating and fun

Id imagine

she still has a distinct smile and i love it

My tulpas have distinct movements and expressions too Our mom can tell us apart

even her voice i cant fake

8:33 PM

when she speaks out loud

YEAH SAME WITH MINE

Do any of you live with your parents?

nah i live alone

Kei Wendt

My tulpas have distinct movements and expressions too Our mom can tell us apart

Your mom knows?

Um, do you recommend I tell them, or not? Not sure, I think they would say I'm delusional or try to get me to go to a psychiatrist

you could bring up tulpas in some vague way

8:35 PM

and test the waters

berockly (TTG)

Your mom knows?

Yeah I told her about eishi after i created/encountered him But now she knows in even more detail since i suspect a dissociative disorder separate from tulpamancy

~Moonlight~

Um, do you recommend I tell them, or not? Not sure, I think they would say I'm delusional or try to get me to go to a psychiatrist

No Unless they're really open

I've gone to therapy before, for anger issues, it wouldn't surprise me if they just sent me right back

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

you could bring up tulpas in some vague way

I'm terrible at being subtle

~Moonlight~

I've gone to therapy before, for anger issues, it wouldn't surprise me if they just sent me right back

Oh they probably will think it's a disorder My dad thought that

i mean you can always go out for a walk if you want to be with your tupper in a more obvious way, if you feel ok with it

Like, when I try to get info to make someone a secret gift, they always figure out I wanna give them something

Then dont Unless you know they are open

^

my parents think meditation is borderline occultism lmao

8:37 PM

they're kinda wack

Alright, thank you, I will probably do it after I move to Japan or the UK so they can't control me anymore mwahahaha

and its funny that my therapist knows about my tulpa, and she sees it as a good thing if it helps with my own issues

Your therapist sounds nice

she said shes studying DID related things and she hadnt heard of tulpas before i told her

8:38 PM

so she probably knows functional multiplicity is a thing

My old therapist tried to make me stop being scared of cockroaches by showing me pictures of cockroaches

8:39 PM

It scared me even more

my tupper helps me walk past dogs, since i had some pretty unfun situations with dogs when i was a kid

8:40 PM

she doesnt feel afraid or anxious of them

I can't even get close to a cockroach without trying to jump away as fast as possit

8:41 PM

Possible

8:41 PM

Only reason I fear the dark are those damn things too

8:42 PM

I remember when I was a kid and turned on the lights 5 or 6 would go back to hiding in the shadows

8:42 PM

So now I can't sleep without light to know there aren't any...

8:42 PM

Although now I only see one every few months

8:43 PM

This is the first time I share this with anyone, I feel weird..

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

my parents think meditation is borderline occultism lmao

Not the type you wanna introduce tulpas to

exactly

8:43 PM

last time i visited i barely talked to my tulpa so i wouldnt seem "off"

Hey, I have a question that very well might come off as stupid but I can’t find anything about it in the FAQ on the subreddit

3:48 PM

so i am prepared to embarrass myself because I am genuinely worried about something (edited)

3:52 PM

So you can communicate with a tulpa through thought instead of verbal communication This implies that you share all thoughts. Is this true? I know they unfortunately have access to my past memories which i feel extremely negatively about because i have some secrets i keep from everyone. i don’t want a potential tulpa to view me in a negative or inaccurate way based on aspects of myself that i have locked away in my head. Anyway the main point of my question is that i’ve had an extremely prevalent fear my entire life of having my mind ‘read.’ Will i have no privacy within my thoughts whatsoever anymore if I form a tulpa?

You won't really be able to keep your thoughts away from your tulpa But it's not like they're an irl person, they're just a part of you So imo you don't need to worry about it

Tulpas are generally as understanding as it's possible to be, since they have access to all the same mental context for your memories as you

what i’ve been led to believe is that they’re an autonomous separate consciousness so i think if i am an exceedingly private person (which i am with a lot of aspects) the worrying is grounded in reason

Reisen

Tulpas are generally as understanding as it's possible to be, since they have access to all the same mental context for your memories as you

Even with context, some things I am still not too proud of but I guess it’s something I’ll have to get over, eh

Well, you can just not bring things up (and ask them not to bring things up that you're uncomfortable with either)

3:57 PM

(so they don't even end up thinking about those things)

3:58 PM

well, don't frame it in a "Don't think about purple elephants!" way, frame it in a "please be respectful" way

I guess. Knowing that the knowledge is shared regardless of whether it is discussed or not still makes me feel uneasy but I appreciate the advice. Thanks

(avoid "ironic process theory")

In my personal experience as a newbie, I've also done some things I'm not proud of, I would change a lot of I could go back, but regardless, I told Mallory she could access anything she wanted, from the Answers she has given me, she doesn't think any less of me, as I have changed a lot. She was very understanding of everything, even though as you said, with context and everything my actions were still negative.

Tulpas tend to be even more understanding than even the host who is still judging themself for some reason

Well, I do still judge myself for it, many of my past actions i feel ashamed of, some way more than others, some silly some serious, but ahe doesn't seem to judge me for what I did I don't know why, but it feels good to have someone like that.

So you can communicate with a tulpa through thought instead of verbal communication This implies that you share all thoughts. Is this true? I know they unfortunately have access to my past memories which i feel extremely negatively about because i have some secrets i keep from everyone. i don’t want a potential tulpa to view me in a negative or inaccurate way based on aspects of myself that i have locked away in my head. Anyway the main point of my question is that i’ve had an extremely prevalent fear my entire life of having my mind ‘read.’ Will i have no privacy within my thoughts whatsoever anymore if I form a tulpa?

@Deleted User - jump you are worrying about it but in my opinion a tulpa knowing your secrets and accepting you despite them can be very healing for you

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6:28 PM

there is nothing to worry about… and there is potential for your personal growth

i agree ^

6:29 PM

only memory i try to hide from my tulpa is the embarassing truth of why i chose the character i chose as a base >.<

6:29 PM

i would melt if she knew

she probably does, lol

6:30 PM

and likely wont care